Does this sound familiar?
Built around the actual biopsychology of women, not unrealistic self-care advice.
You’re capable. You get things done.
But lately something feels different.
You might be:
• constantly thinking about everything that needs to be done
• struggling to switch off, even when you have time to rest
• mentally overloaded by invisible responsibilities
• waking during the night or feeling wired but exhausted
• feeling responsible for holding everything together
• wondering why life feels so heavy when you’re technically “coping”
If this feels familiar, you’re not weak.
Your nervous system may simply have been under pressure for too long.
NHS-accredited trauma-informed health coach helping women break free from chronic fight-or-flight –NHS-accredited trauma-informed health coach helping women break free from chronic fight-or-flight –
Still stuck in fight-or-flight… or constantly feeling on edge?
If life has started to feel like constant pressure, exhaustion, or overwhelm, you’re not alone.
Every so often I send thoughtful emails sharing simple ways to calm the nervous system, navigate burnout, and reconnect with yourself.
I also occasionally share updates about the supportive women’s community and events I host.
No spam. Just thoughtful emails. You can unsubscribe anytime.
Who this is for…
This work may be helpful if you:
This work may not be the right fit if you:
My work focuses on calming the nervous system first, so real and sustainable change can happen.
Real life support. Sustainable change. No perfection required.
Health Coaching; Working with your real life
Breaking Free From Survival Mode
Built around the actual biopsychology of women, not unrealistic self-care advice.
Does this sound familiar?
You’re capable. You get things done.
But lately something feels different.
You might be:
If this feels familiar, you’re not weak.
Your nervous system may simply have been under pressure for too long.
NHS (PCI) – Accredited Trauma-Informed Health Coach helping women break free from chronic fight-or-flight –NHS (PCI) – Accredited Trauma-Informed Health Coach helping women break free from chronic fight-or-flight –
Still stuck in fight-or-flight… Or constantly feeling on edge?
If life has started to feel like constant pressure, exhaustion, or overwhelm, you’re not alone.
Every so often I send thoughtful emails sharing simple ways to calm the nervous system, navigate burnout, and reconnect with yourself.
I also occasionally share updates about the supportive women’s community and events I host.
No spam. Just thoughtful emails. You can unsubscribe anytime.
This work may be helpful if you:
This work may NOT be the right fit if you:
My work focuses on calming the nervous system first, so real and sustainable change can happen.
Your nervous system is not broken
Your nervous system is not broken
Your nervous system has simply been carrying more than it was designed to hold.
When pressure builds without enough recovery, the body adapts by staying in a heightened state of alertness — often called fight-or-flight.
Over time this can affect:
But when the nervous system begins to feel safe again, things can start to shift.
Energy stabilises.
Sleep deepens.
Mental clarity returns.
Calm first. Then change.
The pressure cycle many women get stuck in
For many women, survival mode doesn’t arrive suddenly.
It builds gradually.
This is not a personal failure.
It is simply what happens when the nervous system remains under pressure for too long without enough recovery.
The good news is that this cycle can be gently interrupted.
A nervous system – first approach
Most health advice focuses on discipline, routines, and trying harder.
But if your nervous system is stuck in survival mode, pushing yourself harder often makes things worse.
When the body remains in prolonged fight-or-flight, the nervous system prioritises survival over everything else. Energy becomes unstable, sleep is disrupted, cravings increase, and even simple tasks can begin to feel overwhelming.
My work focuses first on reducing the pressure the nervous system has been carrying, so the body can begin to feel safe again.
Instead of starting with strict routines or major life changes, we begin with small shifts that help stabilise the system:
When the body begins to feel safe again, things that once felt difficult often start to change naturally.
Energy stabilises.
Sleep deepens.
Mental clarity returns.
Why this work matter to me
For many years I lived in a constant state of pressure.
On the outside I appeared capable and productive. I was working, raising a family, and holding everything together.
But internally my nervous system was always “on.”
I was diagnosed with anxiety as a teenager, and for a long time I believed that was simply part of who I was.
Looking back now, I can see that my nervous system had simply been under pressure for years.
Like many women, I was carrying invisible responsibilities, constant decision-making, and the emotional weight of keeping life running smoothly.
My body was doing exactly what it was designed to do — staying alert in order to cope.
Over time I began to understand what was actually happening in my nervous system.
Instead of pushing myself harder, I started reducing the pressure my system had been carrying and supporting my physiology in small, realistic ways.
Gradually things began to change.
My mind became quieter.
My energy stabilised.
I was able to rest properly.
Today I don’t see myself as an anxious person. I see someone whose nervous system simply needed the right conditions to feel safe again.
I realised my nervous system had never been broken.
It had simply been trying to protect me.
That understanding completely changed how I approach health, wellbeing, and stress — and it is now the foundation of the work I do with other women.
Why this work matters to me
For many years I lived in a constant state of pressure.
On the outside I appeared capable and productive. I was working, raising a family, and holding everything together.
But internally my nervous system was always “on.”
I was diagnosed with anxiety as a teenager, and for a long time I believed that was simply part of who I was.
Looking back now, I can see that my nervous system had simply been under pressure for years.
Like many women, I was carrying invisible responsibilities, constant decision-making, and the emotional weight of keeping life running smoothly.
My body was doing exactly what it was designed to do — staying alert in order to cope.
Over time I began to understand what was actually happening in my nervous system.
Instead of pushing myself harder, I started reducing the pressure my system had been carrying and supporting my physiology in small, realistic ways.
Gradually things began to change.
My mind became quieter.
My energy stabilised.
I was able to rest properly.
Today I don’t see myself as an anxious person. I see someone whose nervous system simply needed the right conditions to feel safe again.
I realised my nervous system had never been broken.
It had simply been trying to protect me.
That understanding completely changed how I approach health, wellbeing, and stress — and it is now the foundation of the work I do with other women.
A simple place to begin
If you’d like to understand what may be happening in your nervous system, you may find my guide helpful.
Breaking Free From Survival Mode
Inside you’ll learn:
Learn more about the guide (coming very soon…!)
You don’t have to do this alone
Alongside my writing and coaching work, I also host small community gatherings for women across Bath and North East Somerset (BANES).
These include wellbeing walks, coffee mornings, and small supportive groups where women can step out of the pressure of everyday life and connect with others who understand.
For many women, simply having a reason to leave the house and meet others can be a powerful step in recalibrating the nervous system.
These include:
Sometimes the most powerful step is simply realising you’re not the only one feeling this way.
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You don’t have to do this alone
Alongside my writing and coaching work, I also host small community events for women who want connection, support, and space to breathe.
These includes:
Sometimes the most powerful step is simply realising you’re not the only one feeling this way.
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What Women Are Saying
“I highly recommend Mariko as a health coach.
I was struggling with sugar addiction, chronic heartburn, and health anxiety — and didn’t know how to make a change or where to start.”
“I joined this wellbeing group primarily to meet new people, and it has been such a rewarding experience.
One of the things I love most is that there’s a fresh face at every meeting, and it keeps the energy high and the conversations exciting.”
“Within weeks, my anxiety eased, and I felt more able to recognise and manage it before it spiralled.
She’s helped me massively — I understand myself more and have real tools to cope when life feels heavy. Thank you, Mariko.”
“Thank you Mariko, your wellbeing walks made me feel motivated to get off the sofa and go out walking! Willl join again.”
“I attended the Sweet Escape workshop recently, and it was an eye-opener! The session helped me understand food cravings and how much sugar is in everyday foods without realising.”
“The information gained has enabled me to change how I think about sugar and food in general. I’ve already changed my diet, lost weight, and feel better.
Mariko is very knowledgeable and helpful, and there was no judgement from her about my diet or sugar intake.”
“Brilliant! What an informative and thought-provoking session. Mariko is clearly knowledgeable on all things sugar and nutrition — she delivered so much information in such an easy-to-understand, interesting way.”
“It really is a social lifeline for me as it’s been quite hard making new friends since moving to Bristol. xx”
Start by understanding your nervous system
If you feel constantly “on,” overwhelmed, or exhausted, the most helpful first step is understanding what your nervous system may be responding to.
Take the 3-minute Nervous System Quiz to discover where your body may currently be operating.
→ Take the Quiz (coming soon)
Start by understanding your nervous system
Understanding your nervous system is often the first step towards feeling like yourself again.
Start by discovering where your system may currently be operating.
